Is There Any Correlation Between Your Handwriting And Relationships?

It’s rightly said “If it takes you more than four weeks to get over a breakup, then you have fallen in love with that person…”. That’s why your brain won’t let go, even if your heart already has. When I read this somewhere, it reminded me of one of my clients, Nisha ( name changed), who wanted to seek help from me. She began by saying “I have a big problem. My boyfriend dumped me because I talked to my ex. And he’s told me that our relationship is over. I am hurt big time. Please help.”

I kept pondering about the fact, that many times, problems are made to be big or small, depending on the way people perceive them. Also, there is a strong possibility of you, having yourself, landed on the problem deliberately. I thought to myself, “Is our personality driven or written?“.  Well, there can’t be a specific answer to it, as personality is unique and a relatively stable pattern of feelings and behavioral thought processes.

When graphology is mingled with psychology, we expect a person to be friendly, sloppy or generous, depending upon the situation.

It is known by all, that communication is a vital form of expression. However, in Nisha’s case, the aspect that needs attention is what you’re communicating and to whom. It is obvious that Nisha’s boyfriend is possessive and needs constant attention and love, the reasons being why he dumped her in the first place. The time she spent talking to her ex, could have been allocated to her boyfriend.

Being a Graphologist and Psychologist my advice not only to Nisha, also to anyone dealing with the same situation would be first try being empathetic, understand your personality pattern, evaluate your communication and listening skills, do not rationalise the situation or conceal the facts that may cause disharmony in personal relationships. Ignoring the problems might seem easier but never provides a solution. Instead of being defensive, Nisha needs to be assertive.

Handwriting analysis is an art. A graphologist can interpret by simply analyzing the formation of letters. These interpretations come in handy while drawing out vital conclusions relating to the matters of heart, and also throw valuable light as to how an individual would interact with their partners. But these analysis calls for specialized skills, since the interaction of individuals is not something that can be easily calculated or assumed.

An individual's physiological and psychological functions are depicted in a person's handwriting. The act of writing contains spontaneous actions for the purpose of communicating ideas. The look and feel of writing dictates our style of writing. An individual’s writing is the result of perception of his/her pen-stroke's touch and visual images.

The act of handwriting uniquely fulfills the requirements for a projective personality test. The writer records responses to testing stimuli by writing. The writer spontaneously constructs random parts (strokes) to form known patterns (letters) into communicated ideas (words). Imposed organization to these ideas (sentences) in a limited area (page) conveys a conscious creative purpose (message). The physical data is recorded as a written specimen.

Let’s have a look at the handwriting samples below. Can you find out which sample shows a slightly negative trait? Which among these should change their habits? And can he/ she change himself/ herself for a better relationship in love?

In my opinion, to have a long-lasting and healthy relationship, it’s good to have a better understanding of your partner and his/ her personality traits. You must ensure that you don’t hide anything from your partner, either. Identify if your partner has a good sense of humor by finding the letter “g” to be drawn like number 8.

Combination of loops in the right and the left side of lower case of a’s and o’s imply that a person is of secretive nature. Big loops that cross reveal that the person isn’t comfortable about telling the truth and there is a strong possibility that he/ she might by lying to gain attention or because of personal insecurities. Be cautious.

Identify and interpret the Handwriting Pressure

Aparently, the interpretation of pressure in the Handwriting can be categorised into Heavy pressure, Grip pressure and Secondary pressure ranging from Light, medium to extreme. The pressure can be judged by the amount of pressure with which the writing instrument is pressed into the paper. On the other hand the Secondary pressure is the alteration of degrees of pressure on the upstrokes and downstrokes. Grip Pressure is the amount of pressure writer puts on th writing instrument.

You may ponder how to differntiate or judge the pressure of an individual’s writing. The below picture will clear the fog over the concept of Pressure. If you self examine the document you will determine how much pressure is used by how “dark” the writing is. Also, if you trun the page over and feel below it how much pressure has been exerted(especially if the sample is written on a soft surface).

However, it will be interesting to know that the writers with Heavy pressure are highly sucessfull. They possess a lot of vitality and their emotional responsiveness lasts for long. On the contrary the writers with medium pressure are seldom successfull and have a fair amount of energy to make it through out the day. Lastly, those with light pressure try to avoid energy draining situations.

There is no denying in the fact that you can’t find someone who is 100% compatible with you. But you can definitely get yourself to find someone who understands your needs and can comprehend you, better than most around.

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